Don't Judge.... You'll be Happier!

I try not to judge people. It's very hard, but I try. The less I judge, the happier I am. It`s simple.

To each action there is a reaction. When I judge someone, one day, someone will judge me.
What you give in life, will be returned to you, some time or another.

I`m very glad to tell you, but I am a VERY Happy person. and, most of the time, I  don't give a damn what anyone think of me. Why? Because I try not to judge people.

I don't judge, so my sub-conscious mind tells me: Go On! Live your live, no one will judge you. Be Happy.

I always try to see it as follows: When I judge you, I think of the negativity surrounding your action.
By thinking and commenting about your negativity, I`m actually attracting negativity to myself.

So what do I do? I do the opposite. I think to myself: All to their own. Good for him. I will learn from his actions. Immediately I take the negativity surrounding the circumstances, and I make it into something positive for myself. I take this bad thing, and turn it into a learning experience for myself.

Leave others alone. Rather support them, and in the back of your mind, learn from it all!

Be Happy!

Learn From One Another

One of the most important things  to enhance your Happiness is start learning from the mistakes others make. 

Why go through the same heart ache as your friend or sibling? If you see the errors they make, make a conscious decision never to go down the same path, and you will spare yourself the drama, heartache and time. 

The key to this process is actually not only  in making the subconscious decision, but in actually recognizing the errors our friends and families make.

We sometime have so much love for our friends and families, we don`t see the errors they make, we just support them through their difficult times.

We must learn, whilst supporting our loved one through scenarios and circumstances, to analyse what exactly happened. We don`t need to point out to our loved ones the errors they made, we must just make a mental note of it.

Taking note of our loved ones errors in life means that you will have a happier life in the near future. Making a conscious decision never to go down the same path or make the same error as someone has, will help your subconscious mind to steer you away from likewise situations.

Go about your day as always, but start to make notes in your mind, which you can use in the future to remind yourself of what the outcome might be.

Be Happy!

Give a Little

To be happy, you have to make Happy. Why not try this week, and make Happy by giving?

Giving is so easy. You don't even have to have a budget to give. You can give so much more than money.
Give a smile. Make a cup of coffee for a over worked colleague. Make dinner for your wife.
Pop a friendly email to a friend or a relative you haven`t seen in a while. Give attention to a neighbour walking around outside.

Giving is so easy, and so rewarding. And you will find, the more you give, the more you have to give.
The more money you give, the more you will have to give. The more time you give , the more time you will have to give.

If you have a need to be Happy, try to make others Happy, and in return life will give you Happiness.

And remember, give without expecting anything back, give unconditionally, give with love, give with joy, and give with gratitude that you are able to give.

Give away your love, attention, consideration, abilities and strengths, and the reward will be so fulfilling, you wont be able to stop.

May the joy of giving be with you.

Be Happy!