Why have dreams if you can`t live them...
We all have dreams in life. Call it what you will, goals, ideals, I call it dreams. And to live a happy life, I try to live my dreams more often! Not only does it have a positive effect on me, it`s FUN!
Be honest, we all want to be rich. I know I do, but its not always how we end up. Well, most days, I live my dream. I wander through my day as if I was stinking rich. Its fun. I drive my car, dreaming it its actually that expensive German model I love so much. If you do it for long enough, your mind will start thinking your dream is actually real, and this is the great part... when you have convinced your mind it is actually your reality, it will for certain manifest in your live. Almost everything in my life today, used to be a dream I lived.
Always dreamt of owning your own business... well, start think of it as already part of your reality.
When you draft your Business Plan, tell your mind its already a reality... and feel it. Get excited, feel the reality of the dream. And most importantly, imagine the gratitude you will feel should your dream become reality, and live with that feeling of gratitude, and your dreams will be your reality a whole lot quicker.
Decide where your happiness lies, and live as if its already part of your life.
Be Happy!
Monday 11 November 2013
Friday 13 September 2013
Don't Judge.... You'll be Happier!
I try not to judge people. It's very hard, but I try. The less I judge, the happier I am. It`s simple.
To each action there is a reaction. When I judge someone, one day, someone will judge me.
What you give in life, will be returned to you, some time or another.
I`m very glad to tell you, but I am a VERY Happy person. and, most of the time, I don't give a damn what anyone think of me. Why? Because I try not to judge people.
I don't judge, so my sub-conscious mind tells me: Go On! Live your live, no one will judge you. Be Happy.
I always try to see it as follows: When I judge you, I think of the negativity surrounding your action.
By thinking and commenting about your negativity, I`m actually attracting negativity to myself.
So what do I do? I do the opposite. I think to myself: All to their own. Good for him. I will learn from his actions. Immediately I take the negativity surrounding the circumstances, and I make it into something positive for myself. I take this bad thing, and turn it into a learning experience for myself.
Leave others alone. Rather support them, and in the back of your mind, learn from it all!
Be Happy!
To each action there is a reaction. When I judge someone, one day, someone will judge me.
What you give in life, will be returned to you, some time or another.
I`m very glad to tell you, but I am a VERY Happy person. and, most of the time, I don't give a damn what anyone think of me. Why? Because I try not to judge people.
I don't judge, so my sub-conscious mind tells me: Go On! Live your live, no one will judge you. Be Happy.
I always try to see it as follows: When I judge you, I think of the negativity surrounding your action.
By thinking and commenting about your negativity, I`m actually attracting negativity to myself.
So what do I do? I do the opposite. I think to myself: All to their own. Good for him. I will learn from his actions. Immediately I take the negativity surrounding the circumstances, and I make it into something positive for myself. I take this bad thing, and turn it into a learning experience for myself.
Leave others alone. Rather support them, and in the back of your mind, learn from it all!
Be Happy!
Wednesday 4 September 2013
Learn From One Another
One of the most important things to enhance your Happiness is start learning
from the mistakes others make.
Why go through the same heart ache as your friend or
sibling? If you see the errors they make, make a conscious decision never to go
down the same path, and you will spare yourself the drama, heartache and time.
The key to this process is actually not only in making the subconscious decision, but in
actually recognizing the errors our friends and families make.
We sometime have so much love for our friends and families,
we don`t see the errors they make, we just support them through their difficult
times.
We must learn, whilst supporting our loved one through scenarios
and circumstances, to analyse what exactly happened. We don`t need to point out
to our loved ones the errors they made, we must just make a mental note of it.
Taking note of our loved ones errors in life means that you
will have a happier life in the near future. Making a conscious decision never
to go down the same path or make the same error as someone has, will help your
subconscious mind to steer you away from likewise situations.
Go about your day as always, but start to make notes in your
mind, which you can use in the future to remind yourself of what the outcome might
be.
Be Happy!
Monday 2 September 2013
Give a Little
To be happy, you have to make Happy. Why not try this week, and make Happy by giving?
Giving is so easy. You don't even have to have a budget to give. You can give so much more than money.
Give a smile. Make a cup of coffee for a over worked colleague. Make dinner for your wife.
Pop a friendly email to a friend or a relative you haven`t seen in a while. Give attention to a neighbour walking around outside.
Giving is so easy, and so rewarding. And you will find, the more you give, the more you have to give.
The more money you give, the more you will have to give. The more time you give , the more time you will have to give.
If you have a need to be Happy, try to make others Happy, and in return life will give you Happiness.
And remember, give without expecting anything back, give unconditionally, give with love, give with joy, and give with gratitude that you are able to give.
Give away your love, attention, consideration, abilities and strengths, and the reward will be so fulfilling, you wont be able to stop.
May the joy of giving be with you.
Be Happy!
Giving is so easy. You don't even have to have a budget to give. You can give so much more than money.
Give a smile. Make a cup of coffee for a over worked colleague. Make dinner for your wife.
Pop a friendly email to a friend or a relative you haven`t seen in a while. Give attention to a neighbour walking around outside.
Giving is so easy, and so rewarding. And you will find, the more you give, the more you have to give.
The more money you give, the more you will have to give. The more time you give , the more time you will have to give.
If you have a need to be Happy, try to make others Happy, and in return life will give you Happiness.
And remember, give without expecting anything back, give unconditionally, give with love, give with joy, and give with gratitude that you are able to give.
Give away your love, attention, consideration, abilities and strengths, and the reward will be so fulfilling, you wont be able to stop.
May the joy of giving be with you.
Be Happy!
Thursday 29 August 2013
Compliments Are Free
There are so many ways to enhance your level of Happiness. In my experience, one of the best ways to do this, is to start Complimenting.
Complementing means you acknowledge the positive things in your surroundings. In other words, by complimenting as you go about your day, you are spreading positivity. And the more your give out Positivity, the more you will attract it!!
When you open your eyes, and you are constantly on the lookout for things to compliment, it`s almost as if you can't help to see only positive things. Its almost as if your subconscious mind won't allow you see to see any thing else.
When you start complimenting your surrounding, may it be your teacher for the excellent lesson she gave, of your waitron for the great service, or complimenting a colleague on her beautiful hair, you are opening your eyes and your attitude to only the positive. And it won`t be long before positivity is the only thing you are surrounded by.
"If you don`t have anything good to say, just hold your tongue" ; I think there is a lot more to this saying :)
Folks, go out and live your lives. Go out and make some ones day with a lovely compliment. Go spread the positive things in live. Who knows, maybe tomorrow when you need some positivity, someone will compliment you!
Be Happy!
Complementing means you acknowledge the positive things in your surroundings. In other words, by complimenting as you go about your day, you are spreading positivity. And the more your give out Positivity, the more you will attract it!!
When you open your eyes, and you are constantly on the lookout for things to compliment, it`s almost as if you can't help to see only positive things. Its almost as if your subconscious mind won't allow you see to see any thing else.
When you start complimenting your surrounding, may it be your teacher for the excellent lesson she gave, of your waitron for the great service, or complimenting a colleague on her beautiful hair, you are opening your eyes and your attitude to only the positive. And it won`t be long before positivity is the only thing you are surrounded by.
"If you don`t have anything good to say, just hold your tongue" ; I think there is a lot more to this saying :)
Folks, go out and live your lives. Go out and make some ones day with a lovely compliment. Go spread the positive things in live. Who knows, maybe tomorrow when you need some positivity, someone will compliment you!
Be Happy!
Wednesday 28 August 2013
The Importance of Laughter
This is my first online post as a Blogger. I have this Wonderful Happiness in me... And I feel I should share this with the world. I don't always know where this happiness comes from, but every now and then, I realise, it comes from within.
We all have the ability to create our own level of happiness. I use Laughter almost every day to inhance my Happiness levels.
I email my wife ever morning when I get to work, and I remind her, to laugh at least once during the day, and to also make someone else laugh. By doing this, she has to be on the look out for something or someone who can make her laugh. This opens her eyes to all the positive and beautiful things that could have been missed, should she not have been on the lookout for them.
By sharing her laughs with others, she is not only manifesting joy in their lives, but also in her own... It's a big circle of joy. And it fun...
Happiness is so easy... but yet, we make it so hard for ourselves... Start today, to create your own unique happiness. One that only you can manage. One that cannot be stolen, one that cannot be influenced. and remember, start with a smile....
We all have the ability to create our own level of happiness. I use Laughter almost every day to inhance my Happiness levels.
I email my wife ever morning when I get to work, and I remind her, to laugh at least once during the day, and to also make someone else laugh. By doing this, she has to be on the look out for something or someone who can make her laugh. This opens her eyes to all the positive and beautiful things that could have been missed, should she not have been on the lookout for them.
By sharing her laughs with others, she is not only manifesting joy in their lives, but also in her own... It's a big circle of joy. And it fun...
Happiness is so easy... but yet, we make it so hard for ourselves... Start today, to create your own unique happiness. One that only you can manage. One that cannot be stolen, one that cannot be influenced. and remember, start with a smile....
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